| Kennedy's Disease Chat Transcript 9-02-2006 Topics: Topic: Open Forum Host: Murray Williams | ||||
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Chat Participants: Murffl-don MICH SEAN Butch craig_h Gary_KS KellyC Rich annmariejj billeric BEGIN CHAT
Murf: Morning Sean fl-don entered the room. fl-don: gm from fl Murf: Morning Don, how's your weather? MICH entered the room. fl-don has left the room. Murf: Morning Mich fl-don entered the room. Murf: Hi again Don//1 fl-don: re-hi MICH: Good Morning Murf, Sean and Don fl-don: gm mi Murf: Are you wet? Butch entered the room. Murf: Morning Ron fl-don: conference getting closer MICH: I take it it's raining in Texas Murf: No sunny and 80 deg in Houston Butch: Hi Murf--How are you? fl-don: we should all wear a tag with screen name on it Murf: Don - are you getting wet? fl-don: nope, other than usual thunderstorms SEAN: GOOD MORNING GUYS Murf: We could do that on our name tags fl-don: hurricane was a whimper here in fl Butch: It is raining ALOT in Penna. Windy too. SEAN: its sunny and about 75-80 today Murf: We dodged another one Murf: Ron - your getting that thing now aren't you? Butch: Hi Sean, Mich, fl-Don....How are you guys feeling? SEAN: doing great butch Murf: Sean are you going to the conference too? Butch: Murf--Yes! fl-don: good here butch fl-don: u? SEAN: when is the conference i would like to go MICH: Not doing to bad... just slowing down a bit fl-don: wait till u get old fl-don: all your parts slow down Murf: I just printed off a trip tik from AAA SEAN: do you have to fill any forms out for the conference Murf: October 11 - 13th MICH: Don I'm only two years younger than you are Butch: Are all you guys on the med for the clinical trial or do you intend to go on it. Murf: Yes - you'll need to register before the 15th or pay extra fl-don: conference oct 11 - 13 fl-don: NIH in mid sept SEAN: yes i currently am but do no know if i am getting the real medicine or a sugar pill Murf: I've gone 3 months ago Ron Murf: u? SEAN: murf is that the 15th of this month Murf: yes fl-don: my luck, ill get sugar water Murf: I don't know either SEAN: i seem not to cramp as much and feel a little better Murf: probably sugar Butch: Hopefully they can learn something from our results of this trial. I am very excited to be a part of it. craig_h entered the room. Murf: I think I do too craig_h: good morning Murf: Morning Craig Butch: Hi Craig. SEAN: good morning Craig Murf: hows your weather? MICH: How's the Virginian? craig_h: grouchy and crabby this morning, neighbors dog barked ALL NIGHT long fl-don: are any of you guys who are diabetic using Byetta? Murf: Craig - you need to go our and bite that dog on the ear Butch: No fl-Don. I am on metformin for type 2 diabetes. craig_h: I might sell that dog on EBay ! Murf: So far I'm lucky SEAN: so how many people right now are doing the trial fl-don: i will be in trial in mid sept Murf: I think we have close to 50 craig_h: I just had my 3 month trial checkup Butch: Sean--not sure but there will be 50 KD men when it is completed. SEAN: i go back in December to get more medicine or sugar pills and get evaluated at that time Murf: I'll be going for my 3 month in a few weeks fl-don: anybody going to NIH on sept 19 & 20 fl-don: i participated in the Ohio state KD study in late 90's SEAN: that funny i do not have to go back for 6 months i went on June 26th thru June 29th and go back in December i guess there is different trials craig_h: hot dang, college football all day craig_h: Sean, you see your local doctor on the 3rd and ninth months SEAN: yes Murf: Sean - you'll need to see your family doctor in three months SEAN: yes i have an appointment Gary_KS entered the room. craig_h: that's what I meant I just did, 3 month checkup, but not at NIH Murf: Morning Gary Gary_KS: Good morning, all. Gary Uchiyama joined from Kansas City. Murf: Me too I go in a few weeks SEAN: ok thanks that makes me feel better i thought i might have messed up Butch: Hi Gary. fl-don: when do we need to see our own docs? SEAN: hi Gary fl-don: when u go murf? Murf: Don't forget the forms your Dr. has to fill in craig_h: NIH will send a letter when it's time Don fl-don: do we see our own docs after 1st NIH visit? SEAN: what time is the chat over i have to go get food for my company Murf: I go for my 3 month in a few weeks. back to NIH on the 18th of Dec fl-don: ty Craig Butch: It sure was a shock and a shame that Patrick left us to go to a far better place. He was a very good man. fl-don: gone is not a better place Murf: Usually about 1 hour from now Murf: Sean SEAN: i hope to get back in time to chat some more talk with you guys soon. Murf: He sure was I was shocked Murf: Take care Sean fl-don: how did the double tree in dc treat you guys? Murf: That struck a nerve with me because I also live alone Murf: Don - I was ok u? fl-don: john c had problems with double tree Murf: I heard Murf: Has anyone else? Butch: You live alone but you are not alone. You have a good support group. Murf: This is very true Ron fl-don: I'm very very lucky to have a great wife who takes super care of me Murf: Don - hopefully that was an isolated incident craig_h: double tree: my room had a shower seat on the wall. It came off the wall with me on it ...... had to crawl back to bed to get up fl-don: yep, that's what I'm hoping Butch: Double-tree was ok. I heard they are re-doing all the handicap rooms. Most are not truly handicapped rooms. Murf: Don - you don't know how luck you are, well maybe you do kellyC_ entered the room. fl-don: is there any other hotel worth looking at? Murf: morning Kelly fl-don: i do MICH: Murf...I hope you keep a cell phone with you incase you ever fall kellyC_: good morning Murf: I do but have stuff all over the house fl-don: but wife is expensive, $2 down, paycheck for life//1 Murf: Craig - really? craig_h: yup Murf: LOL don Murf: That must have hurt. What did they do about it? Murf: Kelly - hows your weather up there? Butch: I think it is very hard in Bethesda to go out to other places to eat other than the hotel. Most are not truly handicapped accessible. craig_h: they apologized, move me to another room, that was about it. I guess I could of pushed to get something out of it, That's just not my style. Only had a small scratch kellyC_: its getting cool now murf kellyC_: soon the leaves will be changing colors Murf: Ron - I stayed in the Hotel, it was easier. kellyC_: Be Rite Back.... phone.... Murf: Craig - as long as you didn't get hurt. Murf: The trial is hard on us old cripples fl-don: what hotel murf? MICH: Has anyone taken a power wheelchair on a plane....will they park it in the plane or in cargo? Butch: My room had a shower seat mounted on the wall also. Without handles it was very hard to get up. How did you guys find things at you hotel? craig_h: 2 weeks ago at work I got very weak. They had to get wheelchair to get me to my car. That was my first wheelchair experience. What a shock for me that was. Murf: Double Tree Murf: Mich - Terry took his to Baltimore in 2003 fl-don: i have flown many times with power wheelchair. they let me go right up to the plane where i got up and walked to my seat. after touchdown they got chair up to the pland door. Murf: They dropped it but rented him on until they fixed it Murf: I suggest renting one in Atlanta fl-don: airlines fixed chair when they damaged it Murf: I use a wheelchair every day at work Butch: Mich--be sure too give them instructions on how to handle your chair. They messed Terry's up on his flight to Baltimore. fl-don: airlines have a narrow chair if you can't walk to seat. they will lift you into seat if you need help Murf: Don - I had to use that on the last flight kellyC_: Back fl-don: Terry told me they dropped his chair in Baltimore Murf: I had the class to fall in 1st the class section Murf: They call it a carry off Butch: You always go first class murf. Murf: As long as you tell them up front what you need most airlines will help all they can fl-don: right Murf: I wish Ron LOL fl-don: if ya need help, ask 4 it Murf: Don - you got it! Murf: Sometimes we need to swallow our pride fl-don: i have never been refused help i needed. MICH: Sometimes we have trouble swallowing Murf: I ask all the time now because the alternative is "I hit the carpet" fl-don: are any of you working the mda telethon Monday? Murf: That too Mich Murf: I was thinking about it but just worn out this year Butch: ALWAYS work within your limitations--There is no shame in asking for help. MICH: Don, I've been working with my wife sorting pledges for the last few years at the telethon Murf: The job is getting more and more all the time Murf: That's great Mich. My daughter worked it a few years ago. fl-don: Judy & i work the phones. also was the judge at the mda lockup this year. also threw out the 1st pitch at a pirates game in preseason fl-don: i milled home plate craig_h: I get so scared about going out much, I feel like a dang hermit sometimes. fl-don: missed Murf: WOW!! how did you get to the mound? Murf: Me too Craig fl-don: threw at home plate and almost hit the 3rd baseman craig_h: I even joined NetFlix to avoid going to the video store Murf: LOL fl-don: took chair to mound Butch: I went for an MRI last week. Told the operator about Kennedy Disease.. While I was on the machine he went to the KDA home page. Was so glad to see his interest in our problem. Murf: I do most of my shopping online Murf: Craig - I know EXACTLY how you feel craig_h: exactly murf, me too ..... almost wear nothing but L.L. Bean now, kellyC_: today's Technology,,,,, is awesome as appose to the 1950's hey.!!! Murf: And when shopping online ... they deliver fl-don: u r sure right about that Kelly kellyC_: yup craig_h: I'm lucky the company I work for lets me use a laptop at home on my bad days fl-don: most buildings are now assessable now. was not true in 50's Murf: They'll even deliver to Sask Kelly LOL kellyC_: really??? kellyC_: wow Murf: LOL fl-don: i worked out of home last 3 years i worked kellyC_: what do they charge LOL Murf: I may be moving offices in Dec. This will add ~ 1 hour to my morning commute craig_h: murf .....ugh kellyC_: Murf what kind of work u do? I'm surprised ur still working Murf: I'm going to see how it goes first but may have to try working at home fl-don: i got much more work done at home then in office anyway! no interruptions Murf: I'm A global advisor for an oil service co. kellyC_: must be a tough man with KD and all hey murf? kellyC_: oooo....ok craig_h: don, I know. Our plant in Juarez doesn't call my house like they do my office ! Murf: Just have to work with whats left of the brain kellyC_: yeah..... for sure yup. Butch: I have been dealing with tendonitis in my right shoulder. You guys all know how hard it is to get out of chair, and with a sore shoulder it is even worse. Rich entered the room. Murf: Morning Rich Butch: Hi Rich. fl-don: and they call these "golden years" Rich: Hi, This is way too early for me! Murf: Ron - Ive torn a ligament in my right shoulder so I have an idea Butch: Sure they do--we give all our gold to the doctors. LOL Murf: I'm taking Celebex for it craig_h: when first diagnosed, I lost a little over 100 pounds, and felt great. Now 75 or so has crept back. I'm determined to get it back off and hopefully feel more mobile again. MICH: Craig, what kind of a plant do you work for? Murf: Cause we need lots of gold to buy our drugs to stay alive Don craig_h: MICH, I do mechanical design work for Electric Motors Murf: Craig - we're very luck we can still work Murf: lucky Rich: Anybody live on the West Coast? craig_h: heck, if I couldn't work and living alone. I'd go raving insane Butch: Craig, electric motors such as in power chairs fl-don: yes, I'm on west coast of fl MICH: Rich, not quite...I'm in Utah now.... but 25 years in Portland Murf: Terry lives in California kellyC_: well got to go everyone bye all Murf: Take care Kelly kellyC_ has left the room. Butch: So long Kelly--stay healthy. craig_h: butch, we actually have tried to get into that market, we can't meet the price points. The project I'm on right now is for Fork Lift's Murf: I need a fork lift at home LOL Murf: for me annmariejj entered the room. Rich: 7:30 is too early for me. I have trouble sleeping so when I do sleep I'm not about to set an alarm. Murf: Good morning Ann annmariejj: Good morning to all. Murf: Are you a carrier? annmariejj: No my husband has Kennedy's my daughter is a carrier fl-don: i wish they would invent a chair a few inches from the floor which we could crawl into, which would then lift us up when we fall. Murf: Welcome - your in the right spot craig_h: don, I've thought that same thing Murf: Good idea Don I'll buy one! annmariejj: I have a question, does change of season effect how you feel? Butch: I have had donated to the KDA 10 power chairs. They are not new but in very good shape. They were demos. I am looking for any knowledgeable person to help to make them 100% so we can sell them for the KDA. Any ideas would be a great help. MICH: Don, my chair won't go to the floor but it does elevate quite a few inches Murf: Some times yes. I can't handle the cold weather any more craig_h: when the weather changes, it messes me up with the temperature rising and falling fl-don: change of season does not affect me. annmariejj: My husband is having a hard time walking because of it getting colder. Murf: Ron that is great! MICH: AnnMarie...yes extreme hot or cold sure slows me down craig_h: I finally got a heat pump last week to keep a more constant temp in house Murf: That's normal for us fl-don: need a chair only i few inches from floor i can crawl into annmariejj: Is there anything that you do for the pain? Both my husband and Murf: I keep the house about 76 -77 Rich: This long hot summer has got to me. Here comes the cooler weather! annmariejj: his brother are effected by the pain to fl-don: i moved to fl from mi due to kd Murf: A lot of us have pain mine are my legs. they just ache (throb) annmariejj: Murf that is what my husband says all the time. What do you do? Murf: I don't take anything yet but I rest a lot. fl-don: i sit in recliner with legs elevated annmariejj: Have you tried acupuncture? craig_h: yup, ache-throb here also. I usually rest, and sometimes keeping the legs a little warm helps me Murf: me too Don. get the legs up and rest Rich: If they can figure out why there is late-onset for some theymight come up with a way to delay symptoms craig_h: yes, and elevated Murf: No I haven't does it work? fl-don: i put pillow under legs to get legs above heart annmariejj: My husband was doing it for awhile and he said it helped but then he got depressed again and stopped. Rich: For me excersise and activity are essential craig_h: soon as I get comfy, ready to watch football, I'll need a beer and have to start all over Murf: I was very depressed to but now on Zoloft fl-don: do like my wife does. kicks me in butt and puts cushion under legs craig_h: by then 1st Quarter almost over annmariejj: Does it help? fl-don: butt hurts Murf: Depression is a serious problem for us as well fl-don: how long has husband had kennedy? Rich: I was lucky, my KD didn't show until I was 68 fl-don: mid 40's here Murf: Craig has the right idea craig_h: 47 here, diagnosed about 6 years ago Murf: 35 here annmariejj: My husband was diagnosed when he was 42 so he has it for 3 years. His whole family which is 7 brothers and sisters are either carriers or have full blown symptoms. Rich: My brother was late-onst too Murf: Ann - close to same as me fl-don: most accept disease after a number of years. tell his md about depression Rich: so I think there are two kinds of KD Murf: Hard to deal with these cards we're delt that early in life annmariejj: Murf are you walking? We finally got him a powerchair for bad days. Gary_KS: 35 here too. craig_h: when I get depressed, I turn on Jerry Springer and thank the lord that I'm not like THOSE people fl-don: think most of us have good and bad days Murf: Ann - tell him to get off his but and chat with us the 1st & 3rd Saturdays of each month Rich: When they get it sorted out there my be a way to treat KD annmariejj: I will try, it is just really hard for him. I think he is somewhat still in denial. Murf: I use a power chair every day a work fl-don: when i have a bad day, i think of my buddy's that went to viet nam and did not return Murf: I can walk about 150 feet now without sitting Butch: The only thing wrong with power chairs is that we use them more and walk less....Don't know if this is good for us. annmariejj: Wow Murf that's great. MICH: I've had the symptoms since 46...now its 14 years later Murf: Ann - my brother was for a while and so was I fl-don: i can still walk, but fall without warning, so use wheelchair to protect feet annmariejj: Back to what someone else said I think there are different forms of this disease. One brother is effects his face, the other two can't really walk. Butch: Rich--what do you mean two kinds of KD? Rich: Thats where I'm at now. walking or standing gets tough after a minute Murf: We do need to exersise a little. just not to over do it fl-don: never heard of different types of kd annmariejj: I keep telling my husband not to overdo it. He still wants to mow the lawn. Murf: Falling is a big worry craig_h: I finally started feeling comfortable with a cane in public. But I must not be as progressed thru this as many of you annmariejj: Then he falls down with the mower. fl-don: falling is part of kd me thinks Murf: I had facial twiches too annmariejj: Yes it is but my husband is stubburn. craig_h: males have more stubborn genes than females :D fl-don: lol, u should talk to my wife about being stubburn Murf: Craig - you will ... sorry fl-don: ann, its probably pride Murf: Remember to treat depression too Rich: The late-onset KD is being looked at to see if some clue will show a way to treatment Murf: Laughter is best!!!!!! SEAN has left the room. Butch: Everyone with KD should use a cane. A cane doesn't help you walk--but it helps to keep you from falling down. annmariejj: I will, because I think that if he took something for depression it might help. fl-don: i use to refuse offers of help, but i gradually accepted my malady Rich: Yes, a cane works for me MICH: A cane is not for me as not enough arm strength...maybe eventually a walker craig_h: I have more problem walking down a slight slope than up a slight slope fl-don: cane, wheelchair, grab bars etcx, i use them all Murf: Don - we all did Rich: Depression my actually be a separate problem fl-don: i have never fallen walking backwards, always walking frontwards Murf: Craig me too thats where i could fall annmariejj: Don do you walk backwards up stairs? fl-don: different muscles fl-don: i dont do stairs fl-don: anymore Murf: Me too Don - I have them all over the house craig_h: ok, good to see everyone .............. talk to y'all in another 2 weeks fl-don: tell your hubby to get on chat ann Butch: So long craig--stay healthy. Murf: Ann //2 craig_h has left the room. annmariejj: I will, or I will try. I think he needs to see he is not the only one. fl-don: use to walk down stairs backwards for safety Rich: We all need support Murf: This chat will be posted on the website so tell him to go read it in a week fl-don: that is why we are here. ann do you live near atlanta ga? Rich: Time for breakfast, see you all annmariejj: Cool, I will. I live in sunny Las Vegas, Nevada. fl-don: omg, heaven. go to las vegas every chance i get fl-don: stay at bally's Murf: You need to haul him to Altanta to the conference Oct 11-13th this year Rich has left the room. billeric entered the room. fl-don: conference last year in san diego annmariejj: I live up by Red Rock. MICH: Bill, wlecome Murf: Bill one hr late bud LOL fl-don: do you have donkey's? annmariejj: It is really hard for us to travel. I have a 7 year old and a 4 year old. Airports are the worst for him. Butch: Better late than never. MICH: Bill, are you back in AZ? annmariejj: No donkey's. Murf: Me too but the airlines help you if you ask fl-don: power chair helps travelling billeric: Sorry guys. I am on a library computer in Mn. They are tough on chat rooms. annmariejj: Really, I keep telling him that. Murf: Maybe we need to have the next conference in Lost Wages fl-don: get him on kda chat and we will tell him like it is annmariejj: Yes, you do. I already know of 7 people that would show up.//1 fl-don: we know exactly how he feels and what he is going through Murf: Tell them all fl-don: we can help him Murf: Thats what we're here for billeric: I am planning on attending the Atlanta session. Hope most odf you are too. fl-don: i keep asking to have conference in vegas annmariejj: that is what he really needs. It is a hard road sometimes. The next chat is in two weeks? Murf: Bill - great! we'll have a blast billeric: odf= of fl-don: ioll b there bil;l Murf: Next chat is the 16th fl-don: ill b there bill annmariejj: If you need a contact in Vegas I can help. Murf: Bruce will be host fl-don: cya FOLKS. POOL TIME billeric: you guys are tough today! Murf: Don - take care Butch: Chats are on the 1st and 3rd saturdays annmariejj: Don- nice talking with you. fl-don: ill look you and hubby up next visit to bally's fl-don: good luck ann annmariejj: that would be great!!!! fl-don: keep your chin up annmariejj: thanks. fl-don: bye all fl-don has left the room. Butch: so long Don. MICH: You'all have a great week Gary_KS: Have a nice weekend. Bye. Murf: Ann - Our conferences are great! imagine 20 guys talking through their nose in one room //2 annmariejj: that is a sight to be seen. billeric: Good one Murf Murf: It's great to meet people tat are going through the same thing as you are annmariejj: Well I've gotta go. I have two kids fighting here at the moment. Butch: Happy labor day. Every day we labor to do the things we must do. Gary_KS has left the room. annmariejj: It was great talking with everyone. You are the best. Murf: Great for wives too. we set asside a room where you can go talk in private about us annmariejj: Really were is that? Murf: Ann take care we're always here if you need to talk Murf: At our conferences annmariejj: Well hopefully we can get one in Vegas. I'm not sure about GA. I am a school teacher. They don't let us out much. Murf: LOL I understand. I'll vote for Vagas Butch: So long you all. Must go for now. hope you all stay healthy till next we chat. annmariejj has left the room. Murf: Ron - take care Butch has left the room. Murf: That was great! billeric: Mitch, are you doing o.k.? Murf: Good chat today Murf: You guys ok? MICH: Bill, doing pretty good, and yourself? billeric: This falling has got to go. Seems like I fall once a week. Full of bruises most of the time. Murf: I'm going to save and log off. you guys can chat as long as you want to
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